මම තවම ආදරය කරන්නේ නෑ කාටවත් ..

k¾;khg Wmka ymka oialï olajk weh ßhe,sá k¾;k fõÈldfjka l< t<s nei bka ch.%yKh ,enqfõ .dhl ÿIHka;a ùrukaf.a k¾;k iyhsldj f,iskah' W;a;rd iy vdkaia iagd¾ia vdkaia Ñ;%mgj,g rx.kfhka odhl jQ weh u;fla yi/,a" fk¿ï úf,ka" foaÿkak jdf.a hk .S;j, rEm rpkd i|yd o ish odhl;ajh ,ndÈKs'

weh kñka yIsks f.dak.,

1& yIsks iqkaorhs ,iaikhs jf.au
oeka wks;a whj;a ,iaik lrkak jevla mgka wrf.k lsh,d fmdä wdrxÑhla ,enqKd'
Tõ' uu rEm,djkHd.drhla mgka .;a;d <Õ§' talhs fï ojiaj, uu f.dvla ksIaIío fj,d ysáfha' fï ojia áfla b;ska tal ;uhs lrkafka'


2& talg wu;rj fldfyduo l,d Ôú;fha lghq;=@
l,d Ôú;h .ek lshoa§ k¾;kh kï ljodj;au kj;a;kafka kE' fï ojiaj,;a ta jevkï lrf.k hkjd' B<Õ wjqreoafoa ;sfhk ixo¾Ykhlg;a ,Eia;s fjkjd' uf.a rEm,djkHd.drfha jevhs k¾;kfha jevhs tlal uu f.dvla ld¾hnyq, jqK ksid ug rÕmEu me;a; .ek jeä Wkkaÿjla olajkak neß jqKd' biairyg n,uq'

3& yIsks k¾;kh ;=<ska ckm%sh jqKdg fmdä ldf,a b|ka fj<| oekaùïj,g fmkS    ysáhd' we;a;gu yIsks fïlg iïnkaO jqfKa fldfyduo@
uu f.dvla leu;s k¾;khg' uu wdfj;a ßhe,sá jevigykl ÿIHka;af.a k¾;k iydhsldj úÈyg ;uhs' uf.a l,d Ôú;h mgka.;af;a t;kska' ug Ñ;%mgj,g" fg,s kdgHj,g" k¾;k ixo¾Ykj,g jf.a f.dvla foaj,aj,g wdrdOkd ,enqfKa t;kska miafia ;uhs' b;ska we;a;gu .;af;d;a flfklag olaI;djhla ;sfhkjdkï wksjd¾hfhkau fï lafIa;%hg tkak mq¿jka'

4& biairyg fï foj,a fldfyduo lrkak n,dfmd‍frd;a;= fjkafka@ ta lshkafka fg,s kdgHj,g jf.a iïnkaO fjkak n,dfmdfrd;a;=jla ;sfhkjdo@
we;a;gu lshkjdkï fg,s kdgHj,g kï uu we;a;gu leu;su kE' fudlo fg,s kdgH lrkfldg f.dvla fj,dj lem lrkak ´k' uu lrf.k hk k¾;k jev lghq;=;a kj;a;kak fjkjd fg,s kdgHj,g iïnkaO fjkak .sfhd;a' b;ska uu ys;=fõ fg,s kdgH ke;=j Ñ;%má iy k¾;k jev lghq;= lrf.k bkakhs' 


5 wehs ta@ Ñ;%máj,g ta ;rï f,dl= ld,hla lem lrkak ´k fjkafka keoao@
fg,s kdgH .;a;u fu.d ;sfhkjd' tajg wjqreoaola wjqreoa folla ú;r wÈkjd' taj, rE .; lsÍï yeuodu ;sfhkjd' ta;a Ñ;%mghla .;a;u udi 3 ka ú;r rE.; lsÍï wjika fjkjd' ta ksid Ñ;%má lrk tl f,aishs'

6& ta lshkafka flá ld,Sk f.dvla foaj,aj,g leu;shs''''
leu;shs

7& mjqf,a úia;r fldfyduo@
wïuhs" ;d;a;hs" whshhs" u,a,s,d fokakhs

8& ta whf.ka fudk jf.a iyfhda.hlao ,efnkafka@
wïuf.kqhs ;d;a;df.kqhs f,dl= iyfhda.hla ,efnkjd' u,a,s,d kï tfyu kE' ta wh yÍu ksYaIíohs' ta wh lshJafka k¾;kh lrkak lsh,d ;uhs' wïuhs ;d;a;hs ;uhs yeu foal§u udj Èßu;a lrkafka' ta wh bkakjd lshk úYajdih ug fyd|gu we;s'

9& yIsks fï fjklka ÿIhka;af.a .S;j, rEm rpkdj,g ú;rhs rx.‍kfhka odhl;ajh ,nd§,d ;sfhkafka' ta wehs lsh,d weyqfjd;a''''
we;a;gu lsõfjd;a f.dvla fofkla wyk m%Yakhla ;uhs fïl' yenehs tfyu lsh,d fohla kE' ÿIHka;a thdf.a iskaÿjla f.k,a,d weyqfjd;a yIsks uu wÆf;ka iskaÿjla lrd" Thd wdio tafl ùäfhda tlg tkak lsh,d uu uq,skau iskaÿj wykjd' Bg miafia ta iskaÿjg uu leu;shskï ú;rhs talg iïnkaO fjkafka' thd lrmq yeu iskaÿjlau jf.a fk¿ï úf,ka" u;fla yi/,a jf.a iskaÿj,g ux yßu wdi lrd' ta iskaÿ wyoa§ ug tal we;=f<a udju fmKqkd' fjk;a wh;a iskaÿ f.akjd' b;ska taj;a uu wykjd' leu;s jqfKd;a ú;rhs uu ùäfhda tllg hkafka' 


10&  ySkhla ;snqKo l,d lafIa;%hg tkjd lsh,d''''
k¾;kh me;af;ka fï jf.a ;eklg tkak mq¿jka fjhs lsh,d uu ys;=fõ keye' yenehs uu fmdä ldf,a yßu wdihs ñia Y%S ,xld fjkak' talg yßu leu;shs' yeuodu uu Tgqkakla odf.k lshkjd uu ;uhs ñia j¾,aâ lsh,d' ta;a k¾;kfhka fï jf.a ;eklg tkak ,efnhs lsh,dkï uu ys;=fõ kE' fldfydu yß yex.=k olaI;djhla t<shg wdjd'

11& Th foaj,a lrf.k lrf.k hoa§ m%Yakj,g tfyu uqyqK §,d we;sfka' fudkjo ta jf.a wdmq m%Yak@
m%Yak kï f.dvla ;sfhkjd' wu;l fjkafka ke;s fohla .ek l;d lfrd;akï W;a;rd rE.; lsÍï lroa§ kï f.dvla m%Yak jqKd' ta rE.; lsÍï lrmq ;ekaj, l+ve,af,da b|,d' ug ta Ñ;%máh lrkak tmdu jqfKa l+ve,af,da yskaohs' b;ska ta jf.a m%Yak tkjd' m%Yak ke';=j fkfuhs'

12& m%Yak chf.k fldfydu yß lr,d jefv;a lr.kak ´k'''@
wksjd¾hfhka

13& fï lafIa;%fha bkak fldg lgl;d tfyu yefokjdfka' Thd ta .ek fudlo ys;kafka@
tal idudkHhs' flfkla ckm%shkï thdg l;djla yefokafka ke;a;ka t;k fjk m%Yakhla ;sfhkafka' ´k ckm%sh flfklag lgl;d yefokjd' tal kj;a;kak ldgj;au nE' ;uka okakjdkï ;uka fyd|hs lsh,d ta we;s'

14& oeka yIsks óg l,ska udOHg lsh,d ;sfhkjd uu ljodj;a fndre lshkafka kE lsh,d' .sh mdr wms;a tlal iïnkaO jqK fj,dfj;a ta .ek u;la lsÍula lr,d ;sfhkjd' b;ska uu fï mdr;a wykjd yIsksf.ka fndrejla lshkafka ke;=j wdorh .ek we;a;gu fudlo lshkafka@
uu ljodj;a fndre lshkafka kE' ta ksid uu fl,ska lshkaJï' ^fndre lshkak g%hs lr,;a keoao@& fndre lsõfjd;a wdfh;a mdrla tal lshoaÈ wyqfjkjd' ta ksid uu we;a;u lshkakï' wdorh lshkafka we;a;gu iqkaor fohla' wdorh Ôú;hg tkjd hkjd' tal yeu flfklau ú¢kak ´k fohla' wdorh lshk foa ú¢kafka ke;a;ka ug we;a;gu ÿlhs ta flkd .ek'

15& oeka wdof¾ weú,a,d .syskao@
kE' ;du ux wdof¾ lrkafka kE' ug ;du talg fj,dj kE'

16& ta ;d;a;f.a m%Yafka yskaod'''@
Tõ' ;d;a;d f.dvdla ta .ek lshkjd' fï lafIa;%hg wdj;a ;d;a;d lsõfõ TÆj fl<ska ;sfhkak ´k Thdg jev lrkak lsh,hs' ta jf.a wdor iïnkaOhla we;s lr.;af;d;a Thdg wudre fjhs lsh,d lsõjd'

17& wdrxÑ jqK úÈygkï yIsksf.a ;d;a;d yIsksf.a újdyh .ek álla fydh,d n,kjd jeähsÆ' fldfydu yß lula kE ta lshkafka ;d;a;d leu;s flfklaj o ÿj n¢kak l,amkd lrkafka@
Tõ talkï tfyu ;uhs' ta;a ux tl w;lska yßu jdikdjka;hs' fudlo wfma ;d;a;d lsh,d ;sfhkjd ´k fj,djl ug tfyu iïnkaO;djhla ;snqfKd;a lshkak lsh,d' ta;a we;a;gu fj,d ;snqfKa uu f.dvlau ys;=fõ uf.a wkd.;h .ek' ug hd¿fjda bkakjd ´k ;rï' ta;a wdorh lrkak ;rï ld,hla ug ,enqfKa kE'

18& yIsks lsh,d lshkafka we;a;gu fudk jf.a flfklao@
uu weú,a,d yßu wysxil ldgj;a ÿlla fokafka ke;s pß;hla' uu leu;s kE ldgj;a ÿla fokak'

19& lafIa;%fha boa§ Thd úiska mkjd.;a; iSud ;sfhkjdo@
wksjd¾hfhkau' uu ta .ek f.dvdla n,kjd' ‍rÕmdkak wjia:djla ,enqku uu n,kjd ug fudk jf.a pß;hla o ;sfhkafka" ug w¢kak fjkafka fudk jf.a we÷ï o jf.a foaj,a' wfma ixialD;sh;a tlal wms jeäh weÕ fmakak w¢kafka kE' wo ldf,a mrïmrdj f.dvla fjkia fj,d' b;ska ta wh yßu újD;hs'

20&ta lshkafka tal wkqu; lrkafka keoao@
kE' uu lshkafka tal jerÈ fohla fkfuhs' wms ld,h;a tlalu hkak ´k' ta;a uu we;a;gu leu;s kE uf.a weÕ úl=Kkak'

21& wkd.; n,dfmdfrd;a;=fudkjdo@
k¾;kh' bÈßhg wÆ;au úÈfya k¾;k ixo¾Ykhla ;sfhkjd' wÆ;a úÈfya k¾;k ffY,Ska ,xldjg y÷kajd fokak bkakjd' ljodyß ojil uf.a rEm,djkHd.drh ,xldfõ ;sfhk fyd|u rEm,djkHd.drhla lrkak;a n,dfmdfrd;a;=jla ;sfhkjd' ta jf.au ;uhs fyd| ks¾udKhla wdfjd;a uu Ndr.kakjd'

HARD TALK

Thd ys;kafka Thd ckm%shhso@ m%isoaOhso@
ckm%sh;ajh

ckm%shfjkak jeo.;a fjkafka jdikdjo@ olaI;djho@
olaI;dj

Ôú;fha jeo.;a ikaÈia:dkj, § fcda;sYH úYajdi lrkjdo@
uu kï fmdâvla úYajdi lrkjd' wfma wïu,dkï f.dvla úYajdi lrkjd' iuyr wh lshk tajd yß' ;j;a iuyre fndre lshkjd' uu b;ska álla úYajdi lrkjd'

yIsksg fï lafIa;%j, bkak whf.ka ‍fhdackdjla ,enqKq wjia:d ;sfhkjo@
kE'

^tfyu ljqre;a lrkak n,dfmdfrd;a;=fjka bkakjdkï Tkak lrkak wjia:djla kE lsh,;a u;la lrkak leu;shs' fudlo ;d;a;d ;uhs ye‍ufoau ;SrKh lrkafka' tfyu fkao@ wksjd¾hfhka&

fma%laIlhska Thd .ek lshkjd wykak leu;s fudllao''' yIsks yß ,iaikhs@wjxlhs@ ksy;udkshs@ olaIhs@
wjxlhs

/,a,la úÈyg kj mrmqf¾ l,d Ys,amSka rx.kh" .dhkh iy foaYmd,kh hk wxYj,g fhduqùu idudkH fohla njg m;afj,d' Thdg;a  ta jf.a wjia:djla ,enqfKd;a fï ;=fkka f;dar.kafka fudllao@
.dhkh

wms ys;uq Thdg fudlla yß jrhla ,eì,d ;sfhkjd lsh,d' tfla§ Thdf.a rEmfha fudlla yß fjkialula lr.kak mq¿jka kï Thd fjkia lr.kak leu;s fudllao@
talkï fIdala m%Yakhla we;a;gu' ugkï uql=;a udre lrkak" ta lshkafka uf.a uQfKa uql=;a yokak fohla kE' yenehs ;sfhk tlu m%Yafka uf.a fï Wmka ,m yßhg ;sfhkjd' tal ú;rhs ug whska lrkak ´k'